You meet someone, anyone, for the first time.
Have you ever felt like, you know you would instantly get along with that person? And just like your gut told you, you hit it off.
Whilst it’s all well and good when you are vibing off each other when it’s right. Our intuitions also tell us when things aren’t right about someone.
It wouldn’t be fair for me to tell you not to give that person a chance. Everyone deserves a chance to be herd. They may surprise you and turn out to be a great joy to interact with.
The other reason you should allow yourself to speak to somone regardless of what vibe they are giving off is because, there may be a reason beyond what you are sensing, which is giving off these vibes. Aren’t you curious to find out what that is?
If the situation is reversed and we find ourselves to be the ones giving off bad vibes, wouldn’t you wish to be given the benefit of doubt?
Bad vibes doesn’t always have to mean bad people, it could just be because of what we are experiencing at that point in our life.
Worse comes to worse, you had one bad interaction and that’s all it’ll ever be.
I base a lot of decisions based on what vibes I’m feeling and it’s something I want to change because regardless of whether I am wrong or right, I may gain valuable (micro) life lessons from it.
The only way to eliminate any conflicted feelings is to take the risk, even if it is just a small risk. Thereafter you can decide to resonate with the interaction.
Hope you are having a good Monday!